May 19th, 2010
Memorial Day Memories
While I’m on the road I’ve asked two of my favourite bloggers to help fill in for me, and today I’d like to introduce you to Nora from WalkingWithNora.com. Nora is currently counting down the days to a summer full of travel and grad school finals- she’s heartfelt and honest, and definitely one of the good ones.
In just a few weeks’ time, it will be Memorial Day weekend in the States, a three-day holiday weekend for most Americans. For me it signifies the start of summer, the promise of late nights sipping wine next to the pool, ignoring my bedtime and thus my alarm clock, planning weekend road trips and getaways, and soaking up the rays (while wearing SPF 40). While the lovely and Kyla and Mister are on their Road Trip 2010, I thought today I spend a few minutes talking to you about summer and what it means to me.
– Rekindling Friendships. After months of being couped up in houses cozied up to the fireside or under a pile of blankets, there’s no better time for me and the gals to bond all over again. St. Louis is fortunate to host several fabulous festivals over the next few months for jazz, food, Shakespeare, African culture and much more, many of which are free. My weekends will be filled with trips to wineries, poolside chats, and summer twilight nights spent on wine bar patios chatting, remembering, snapping photos and enjoying each other’s company, winter coat free.
– Wine & Words. My “to be read,” pile is 50 books strong and growing. As a middle schooler I made a summer reading stack and vowed to get through the books over the course of my three months off. Even though I no longer have 90 glorious days of freedom, I continue this tradition; my sideboard is stacked 10 books high just begging to be dog-eared, paged through, tatterred and torn up (I tend to carry my books with me everywhere I go, even in my purse). In the last few years I’ve taken my reading habits outdoors to the rocking chairs on the front porch during rainstorms, or the cherry wood patio furniture next to the pool. If I’m lucky I have a glass of wine in hand and mellow out for a few hours, getting lost in the lands of the characters and plots.
– Lazy Weekends. We’re talking sleeping in until 10, lazing about in the PJs even after I’m awake, checking out garage sales, long strolls with Jack, sitting pondside watching the ducks and geese flap about, taking advantage of the rainy days to catch up on movies and the Netflix queue, write letters, and sort through the stuff that was accumulated over the winter. These weekends are work-free and school-free zones.
– Festivals, Patriotism & Baseball. Now that I’ve been in St. Louis as an adult for the last five summers, I have little rituals that last throughout the hot, hot days. Rituals like attending the Shakespeare Festival to enjoy the play of the year which involves grabbing a slice of lawn, some friends and a shareable picnic. Spending Independence Day on the lake with rum punch and food, fireworks and saluting the red, white and blue. Friday nights at the free summer concert series under The Arch along the Mississippi river, Saturday mornings at the zoo with the penguins, and of course, taking in a few baseball games both semi-pro and MLB.
I’ve learned how to balance feeling like a kid with no-school for the summer with the professional adult I must be Monday-Friday at the office. I’ve learned to embrace the extra hours of daylight, time with friends and families, the little moments that make us laugh, make us smile and remind us what life is all about.
Now that I’ve shared my summer plans, tell me, what does summer meant to you?
Any rituals or summer-centric plans you look forward to each year?
Summer for me is the time in between family reunions to do something exciting (so you can have something to talk about!), lemonade, lazy days with the puppies, camping and sizzling under the sun.
Although, this summer means summer school (in SUPER-hot Savannah Georgia!)
but next summer, next summer means I’m getting married!
this summer i plan on meeting my son! :) (due aug 23) :)
adorable blog :)
(i’m here from frecklednest!)
sending packages! weddings! long walks! lots of sun!
I’m not even a summer person and I’m looking forward to Memorial Day – and I carry books in my purse as well! :)
.-= Becky´s last blog ..Reading makes my heart a little lighter =-.
well it’s not summer for me, but I’m still looking forward to some of these things. Notably -my reading pile. Now that it’s getting wintery I love being able to curl up on the couch with the heater, a glass of wine and a great book and not feel guilty that I should be outside, hiking, running and/or enjoying the sunshine.
I’m looking forward to slowing down from my whirlwind of a summer, trying to squeeze everything in -from festivals to camping to patio drinks and bbq’s with friends. It’s a good excuse to hibernate, and concentrate on me…
.-= Caz´s last blog ..Quick-sand you can’t escape from… =-.
After reading this, I’m just itching for full-blown summer! For me that means grilling out! sleeping with the windows open! planting flowers! Thanks for this motivation :)
.-= Anne-Marie´s last blog ..This day is fueled by several varieties of caffeine and Idina Menzel =-.
ngaw you summer sounds really good and idyllic, im super excited for you. mine however, will be spent inside the office im guessing :( good things is, atleast i’ll be reading books too
.-= Nicole´s last blog ..To die by your side is such a heavenly way to die =-.
Rekindling friendships is one of my fave summer happenings, too, and honestly one of the reasons I think I’m skipping summer school this year lol!
.-= Tiera´s last blog ..Mixtape Monday Vol. 6 =-.
I am definitely planning on having an unforgettable summer! The weather where I live is amazing – sunshine almost every day of the year, and I have many more good friends living around me this summer. I’m hoping it’ll be a summer to remember that’s for sure!
Great post my dear friend!! It makes me want to get a stack of books together…. I think that is now on my to do list.
I love how summer smells. Salt water and sunscreen. More freckles. Camping. Being less structured, more spontaneous.
.-= Habbala´s last blog ..Mouse. =-.
I’m totally with you – my “to be read” pile of books keeps growing! so i’d love to spend some summer time reading and chilling out outside. and i’d really love to do some road trips – even weekend getaways to enjoy the weather!
i loved your list – thanks for sharing
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Great post about the summer! :) Thankfully, the weather here is moderate all year-round, but summer does mean more weekends spent at the park with wine and people-watching. There are more outdoor movies and festivals too.
.-= suki´s last blog ..Six Months + Six Dresses: Dress One =-.
Hi Nora, great guest post!
My favorite summer ritual is Canada Day. We get together at my aunts place, enjoy a huge family barbecue followed by an amazing firework display that we all chip in for. We’ve been doing this for ten years.
.-= Michelle´s last blog ..Blog break…. =-.
Reading this post makes me even more excited for summer!! I am looking forward to outdoor runs with the sun beating down on me, lounging on the dock while reading a book & sipping a fruity blended concoction made by my mom, drinks on outdoor patios, walks around the lake with my local girlfriends, and a get together in late August!
.-= Lisa from Lisa’s Yarns´s last blog ..Adventures in Awkwardness: Chapter 1 =-.
I’m excited for this summer too. It’s a been too long since I have been able to really enjoy the summer months (they’re always filled with summer school and job hunting and moving!). This summer I plan to spend hours by the pool with a good book and an adult beverage :), sleep in on the weekends, and explore my city a little deeper.
.-= AshleyD´s last blog ..Weekend Recap via Video Blog =-.
I love Nora and this post! Summer means a lot of the same things to me — reading in the sun, sleeping in and lazing around on the weekends, attending different fairs and festivals. Surrounding myself with friends. You’re pretty much convincing me that I need to move to St. Louis. =)
Love this post, Nora! :) My “to read” pile is getting huge. Can’t wait to curl up on the deck and dive in!
.-= ashleyTIA´s last blog ..The one with Domo’s friend Adeline. =-.
Oh Nora, I just love this. I can’t wait until this moving process is over & I can soak up the sun… wherever that sun may be.
.-= Lauren From Texas´s last blog ..Don’t test these besties. =-.