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July 26th, 2011
On Making Space for A Creative Life, Happiness and a Day Job
Recently a good friend of mine came to me asking for advice about how she could transition from her full time job into having a more creative day to day life. It gave me a lot to think about, because I think that especially online there is a lot out there about how much more wonderful everyone’s life would be if they quit their job and started working for themselves. Those stories are obviously extremely inspiring to hear about, and I’m not immune to that- in fact spent a lot of time over the past year daydreaming, planning and praying that I could make that leap myself- and when I did (part one, part two) I was ecstatic!
Here’s the thing: Being a freelancer or entrepreneur is not an option or even a good idea for lots of people, and I don’t believe that having a full time job in an office building means you’re disqualified from living an incredibly inspired creative life.
For Serious. No matter how high the air conditioning is cranked.
(It also doesn’t know where you work!)
I think that living a creative life is largely about attitude, balance, how you assign value and meaning to what you do, and making room for the unexpected. Even now, working for myself in my dream work environment I’m acutely aware that unless I make conscious decisions about how I structure my days and weeks, having a creative and fun life won’t just happen on it’s own. Can you imagine working in one of these creative workplaces if everyone worked through lunch and counted down the minutes until they barreled out the door?
It was fun to talk with my friend about if the content and hours of her work were standing between her and the type of life she wanted, or if there were choices in how she approached daily life that she could make to have more fun with the life she already has.
I thought it would be fun to share some of the things that have made my life a lot more fun and creative…
Take care of the boring stuff
This is everything that your mom nagged you about when you were growing up: get eight hours of sleep, eat simple healthy food that will give you fuel to run on during the day, and be active for at least 30 minutes a day. When I don’t have these things in place the likelihood of the wheels falling off and my week (and work!) taking a turn for the worse goes through the roof. Before you can go out there and consistently put your unique stamp on everything you touch or come up with your next big idea, you have to make sure you won’t have a sugar crash or nod off half way through your day.
Change your virtual hang outs
Virtual routines are just as impactful as offline routines, and if you check social media and read blogs it’s a good idea to make sure you’re not falling in with a “bad crowd”. If the news is dragging you down, listen to a TED talk instead of the news in the morning and just check the headlines at the end of the day. If it seems like everyone on facebook is complaining, hide those people from your feed. If some of the blogs you read are triggering jealousy or personal frustration for you? Opt out for a few days and see how you feel. Aside from just clearing negativity out, be active in exploring new and unexpected points of view. Try reading blogs in Swedish or French and translating them into English to see the world from a different cultural perspective- Google Reader will even do this for you automatically. Do you have an old Stumble Upon account you haven’t logged into in years? Go on an 20 minute adventure and see where you end up! Since we can tailor our experiences online to such an incredible extent, we might as well use that power for good & as a source of inspiration.
Book blocks of static-free down time into your week
For me static is any kind of communication or media that’s high volume, low quality content. That doesn’t mean that it’s good or bad, it just the background noise of life. You know can choose to leave it on and pay attention selectively or you can turn it off and enjoy the quiet for a while. My big “static” generators are twitter and e-mail, along with anything that has a noise notification on my phone. While I get important information through those sources, it’s in amongst a huge amount of other information, and when I’m working the tasks and leads that come from them never “finish”. The best thing about having time that’s free of static is that you can decide what qualifies and what doesn’t. For myself, knowing that in the evenings I’m going to be offline, without distractions, exploring unstructured time is a complete oasis that leaves me excited for work the next day. It’s exciting to discover that when you allow for time with no expectations, to do list or busy work you create room for playfulness, new ideas, and being spontaneous.
Separate dreaming up your ideas from analyzing them
Self doubt and fear of being wrong can be powerful roadblocks for working on any project that needs playful or inventive thinking to get off the ground, especially if you’re planning to share your end results. Evaluating and refining an idea is a natural part of any creative process, but whatever your passion is make sure you explore all parts of its biggest and craziest possibilities before you start picking it apart. Instead of brainstorming, think of it as dreamstorming. I do this about everything, from my friendships and marriage to web design projects and blog ideas. After all, what seems crazy to you this year might be the next natural step for you in a year.
Create pockets of the day where you’re immersed in what you love
It doesn’t matter if your calling is to travel the world as a volunteer or to stage your first play or be the best friend and partner you can be. To get to doing those things you still have to comparison shop for plane fares, apply for grants, and make sure your bus pass hasn’t expired, respectively. Basically, no matter how closely your work aligns to your calling in life, by necessity a lot of our time is spent on the periphery of the things we love. It’s important to make sure that you spent some focused time on what your passion is- and not just after you leave work. Why not wake up early or stay up late two days a week and spend two hours reading, researching or sketching? Could you trade taking a long lunch for working a little later in the day so you dive into a project you love in the middle of the day?
We each have so much control over our experience of life, but sometimes we get so caught up our routine that those choices become less visible. I hope that this gave you some new ideas on how you can make your life creative, no matter what you do for work!
Love this, especially “Separate dreaming up your ideas from analyzing them” since I can often shoot down my ideas before they’ve even hatched.
I’ve also found that when I’m actually trying to bring a particular idea into reality that the key is to balance being clear with being open.
Just say I want a light-filled 2+ bedroom home that is walkable to public transit and has a backyard for chickens. I like getting really clear about the details. What I want it to feel like. That I want a dishwasher. And front porch. And then, once I’m really clear, I need to be open. Open to the fact that the universe brings things about in very different and mysterious ways that are hard to imagine. Maybe there won’t be a dishwasher but there will be a hot tub. Anyway. Clarity + Openness is my current recipe for finding the house of our dreams. We’re still looking, but that balance feels really good.
That is such a fabulous recipe for welcoming those possibilities into your life- and to not be really locked into how specifically it will present its self to you.
Personally, though? I’m hoping you get a dishwasher and a hot tub. Good luck! Let me know how it goes :)
I am in love with this blog post :) Thank you for this!
Love this! Really helpful. Thanks so much! xx
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This post really helps with the dilemma I’m having now, the job I have been offered is very worthwhile, working with autistic kids in a school, but very stifling too, uniforms for staff, structure, shifts. Full time, eeek! Current job isn’t all that creative but gives me time to do my creative stuff, but have kind of given up on that recently. Need to get back into it & believe that i can do it & get my head in a place similar to yours, you are very focused & a true inspiration.
x
Really fantastic stuff. I can tell you try and live this as well.
Love the ‘change your virtual hangouts’ especially.
I’ve been getting up earlier to write. Even though I’m getting a bit less sleep, I actually seem to have more energy because I’m starting my day creatively. Then it continues the rest of the day.
This is such a great post, Kyla. I, too, have dreamed about working for myself, but the truth of the matter is that my day job is challenging and inspiring in a totally different way…and it pushes me out of my comfort zone and routine all the time and that’s a great thing for me. I think the biggest thing I need to do is unplug and have that static free time that you mentioned. Thanks for the inspiration!
Such a fantastic post. I grew up in a family that owned their own business (construction) and even though I know how hard it can be I’ve always felt like I belong running my own creative business and am hoping to make the switch in the next year and this is both inspiring and makes me think about how I need to set things up too… thanks so much! adore your blog!
I like the idea of changing up “virtual hangouts.” I periodically revise the links roll on my blog, which lists the majority of the blogs I read regularly. I’m also going to re-do my office a little bit so that it’s a more pleasant physical space.
Ugh, I love this post so much. I’ve gone back to it several times since you posted it and I love how realistic you are about creative life. Following blogs run by ladies who have fabulous independent businesses is really inspiring, but I feel like it often paints a picture that is simply not practical for everyone. And trying to emulate these role models often leads to stretching yourself too thin when your lifestyle or career needs simply don’t mesh with self-employment. I so grateful you posted this to remind us that creative living is about your life, not just your work. There’s room for both!
I love, love, love the idea of dreamstorming. I’ve learned that are some things that my life is just better with – some a basic things, like keeping the house cleaned, the laundry put away and nourishing my body with healthy and happy foods, and some are bigger things, like taking time to get away from home and explore the world.
I love your advice; it’s always perfectly balanced between inspiring and realistic and I’ve been having a particularly hard time lately learning to balance the two and integrate that balance into what’s going to begin to turn into a “real, adult” lifestyle here shortly. Love, love, love!
Wonderful article Kyla – really insightful and some great tips that reach beyond the norm. Thanks!
Kyla, this is such a great post! I love the advice you give because it’s always spot on. Take care of yourself, surround yourself with things you love and take time outs. I need to focus more on the taking care of myself, but I’ll get there. One step at a time :)
This is such a great post, Kyla! :) Love it to bits! Working in another creative field by day and balancing my loves and hope-to-be-my-business-one-day creative live after work has been a struggling balance for me over the last few years, but it’s definitely possible to do and is so rewarding, in and of itself. :) You can be creative daily no matter if it’s your day job, or not with a little planning and time-taking!
Absolutely love this post. How utterly true and what a great reminder. I blogged about pockets of time recently too as it’s been on my mind: http://crazybritheaven.blogspot.com/2011/06/pockets-of-time.html Thanks for the reminder… very timely.
This is just what I needed!
I’ve been struggling with some of these things as of late, trying to figure out how to balance/juggle all the little things in my life & really make a go of my creative endeavors. I can’t wait to take these things & meditate on them to discover how I can incorporate this into my life!
Perfect. Thank you!
So inspiring. I’ve been slowly incorporating more scheduled “creative time” into my daily life, but these suggestions are incredibly helpful. More static-free time would be really beneficial…as would getting more sleep :)
Lovely post. Bookmarking this one.
What a great post!
I’m trying to plan parts of my creative life at the moment and being told that because I’m not keen to do it full time means I’m not committed enough. Ridiculous, it’s absolutely possible to be creative in whatever you do!
I’ll definitely be coming back to this post to remind myself about that, thank you :)
Do people tell you all the time that you should write a book? Because you should. Seriously. Your words are the perfect balance of firm and gentle and you make giant things seem attainable. I’m just sayin’…
I love this! Working from home, one thing I loved was having a fun, flavorful and colorful breakfast! A fruity soy smoothie, a flavor packed bowl of oatmeal, etc. It got me in such a good mood! I also took a break to stand up and go outside, walk around, etc. That was when I had a schedule from my manager though.
If I worked for myself – which I sorta do, sorta don’t right now – I would make my life very creative. In fact, IT IS!!! :D
Oh, giiiiiirl. This post makes me want to do a slow-clap standing ovation. Yes and yes.
Working for yourself is lovely. But. It’s also a lot of wearing yoga pants by yourself and working till 11 pm and never really observing weekends (I speak from experience!)
And you’re right! It can be just as “boring” as any other job!
Sarah you totally made me smile with this comment :)
I don’t think I *truly* believed the hours that small business owners say they work at the beginning of their companies until I’d done my first 90 hour work week- but I’ve been trying to limit my 11 pm yoga pants and no weekends to 10 pm yoga pants and one day off a week. You know, on account of wanting to stay married and it not being acceptable to mainline caffeine and stuff. ;)
I’ve been wanting to make my life more creative and fulfilling, and this post was SO helpful. I’m going to put some of these changes in place asap. And I’ll be bookmarking this post for future reference. Thank you so much!
This is seriously the most inspiring thing I’ve read in a while. With getting out of the Navy, starting on my last leg of school, and beginning a new business venture, I’ve felt myself floundering. How am I supposed to schedule my time? How much do I work? How much do I play? It’s difficult finding my new niche and settling into a new routine. This is a sweet reminder to incorporate balance in everything I do, and to remember that I work for myself! So as the new boss, I owe it to myself to give me a little time off every now & then. :)
I love this post. I have this urge to be more creative, but can never quite channel that energy in a way that satisfies me. These tips have been helpful, thanks so much!
I really enjoyed reading these tips. It’s nice to put thinks in perspective and make sure we are filling are day with productive activities. Thanks for sharing!
This is really spot-on and timely for me, as I just quit my corporate job to work for myself full time (after taking the summer off, that is). Thanks so much for sharing this!
This was so helpful for me. I will be revisiting this post and going through and seeing where I can improve my work habits.
Kacie
http://acollectionofpassions.blogspot.com/
Love this, especially because I am “stuck” (not in a negative way though) in an office building (and sometimes in the outdoors :)) with my job and turning this into a creative, freelance job is not an option. However, the time that I don’t spend at my day job, I love being creative and try to do as much as I can to fuel my creativity.
Love this post and totally agree, creativity does not know where I work at all!
My creativity bone has sooo much more to do with how well I’m taking care of myself (mentally, physically, and spiritually) then that is when everything falls into alignment and I have the time and energy to get crackin’ on things. In short… I conquer and appreciate how you put it all down so that I can refer to it and remind myself of ways to keep my creativity bug going. :)
I try to do one thing a little different everyday: stop at a new coffee shop, listen to a new band, drive home a different way. It keeps things fresh and often inspires a new view of something.
Lovely post!
My favorite lines from this post: “For Serious. No matter how high the air conditioning is cranked.” & “Instead of brainstorming, think of it as dreamstorming.”
I’ve started making time in my days for things I love – even if it’s as simple as taking an actual lunch break and not working through it. I think my mentality is if I work through I’ll leave work sooner which a) a lot of times doesn’t happen, and b) even if it does, I don’t take the time to do what I love (read, write, whatever) when I get home that I would have done on my lunch break, because I’m so focused on things for that evening, which means the things I loved were getting pushed aside and only given time when I had some to spare. I’m determined to change that!
Great topic Kyla and one that’s very close to my heart! For me, being creative is so much more than what some people consider it to be – for me it’s expressing myself and my personality and what I love through everything I do. This means throwing together fun outfits and planning dinners that try new spices or vegetables and reading books and blogs that inspire me and thrifting for fun things for my place. You’re right – if you take care of the ‘must do’ items, you can concientiously work your creative self into everything you do!
XO
Lenore
This is so inspiring! And thanks for saying that you can still be creative in an office…I keep hearing how stunted I must be when I am on a project and working in a cubicle!