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January 11th, 2011
How I Quit My Day Job pt.1 (or The Best Bicycle I Ever Bought)
Two years ago, when we had just moved into our first house the coolest little vintage shop moved in up the street from me. I was beyond smitten. I remember walking in and being immediately dazed by how beautiful it was, and saying to the beautiful young owner of the shop “I’ve never seen a shop that’s this beautiful!”. Everything was arranged into perfect vignettes of vintage kitchenware, furniture, and amazing clothes. The space was impossibly tiny, but it felt spacious and like there were treasures everywhere just waiting to be found.
“Jesse, I want to be her when I grow up!! I think that was her little son in the store with her!!” was all I could manage to squeak out when we left. I went every weekend and bought one thing with my tiny budget for fun things.
One day Jesse saw my dream bike (vintage baby blue Schwinn cruiser!) outside the shop and we were able to scoop it up. I was so excited I had to show my blog friends, so I popped open my new blog and posted about it and about how Lune Vintage was on of the most beautiful places on the planet.
Around the same time my friend Amber (with the cool ‘smile’ hand tatto!) sent me the link to a blog she thought I would like because “She’s awesome- so crafty and cute! And she lives in your city!! Her blog is called Freckled Nest. You’re welcome.” I almost didn’t believe her at first- there was a blogger who lived in my city! She even posted regularly, and seemed to be making her living full time from design. Her blog was inspiring and creative, and her personality was sweet and disarming. I was hooked. Lune Vintage and Freckled Nest were my first reads every day.
I read Leigh-Ann’s blog all the time, and started exploring her sponsor’s and friend’s blogs. It was like I stepped into a parallel reality. I started finding the most beautiful craft, design, and personal blogs run by amazing young women who seemed so confident and strong in themselves. Many of them had side businesses and young families, beautiful vintage furniture and incredible fashion sense, quirky and interesting lifestyles and photos of either late night parties or early bedtimes with their children. They were totally normal and completely otherworldly in the same moment, and while they lived all across Canada and the US, in my mind they all lived in the same space- and it was just around the corner if I could work hard enough and dream big enough.
I started focusing on making my blog reflect my interests more, and trying to make every post a little more “me” than I had before- and then one day Leigh-Ann announced a course called Indie Business! It was exactly what I was looking for, and the biggest surprise? That the owner of Lune Vintage was one of the teachers! I was hopping up and down with excitement and registered right away – I even made a countdown to the day it started in my day planner. :)
During the course I gave it my all, I asked questions and soaked in everything I could. I decided that I was going to become full time self employed in two years, and worked out all the details of A Little Thistle – from what I would sell, to the name and the branding – using the guidance of the class and my classmates. And without my knowing it, Jill had found my original post about the bike and her shop, and she really loved it. She had even told Leigh-Ann about it when it happened, and recognized me in the class. Leigh-Ann started visiting my blog, and within a few weeks of the class ending I got an e-mail asking it I wanted to meet up for coffee…
Sometimes first steps can feel impossibly small. Buying a new bike, posting pictures to your blog, or enrolling in a class? These are all things that you do because you’re excited, or because you’re in love with something, or because you need a dream to escape into for a while but they aren’t supposed to lead to anything. Looking back, I’m so glad that I walked into that little vintage store around the corner and bumped into Jill in her beautiful shop, and that Amber sent me the link to Leigh-Ann’s creative and playful online space. The moment I found them, and even though we didn’t know each other, I felt like I had a choice: I could will and work my dream life into existence or I could walk away.
Even when a step toward a dream feels small, it’s still a step toward a dream- and they add up.
This summer I’m having my bike restored, and I’m going to ride it to work every day. Seeing it outside of Lune Vintage in 2009 drew me into my dream life, and maybe if I park it outside the space we share with Lune Vintage it will draw another determined dreamer into hers. In the spirit of little steps adding up, it seems like the right thing to do.
I’m reading this w/tears in my eyes & a lump in my throat. I love how it all worked out. He has a plan for us all. I have dreams for my shop {long hiatus} & makeover for both blog & shop, so many things on my list to sew, scrapbook, create, etc. I took the Indie Biz course in 2012 & got so behind because I got sick & ended up in the hospital. Last year was a hard one medically & I’m a happy camper through & through. I love reading inspiring stories & I know what it feels like to connect w/that big blogger or scrapbooker & feel like OMG! They know who I am! or they responded to little me! I want to inspire others & help w/my life stories. I love social media and being a part of it all, has truly made the world a smaller place. **off to read more of your posts!
Aw, I’m so glad that this spoke to something that you needed Julie. It sounds like you have a beautiful life, filled with so much inspiration! But sometimes that can feel overwhelming because it’s hard to know what to do next, especially when life throws us curve balls. I’m glad that you’re on the mend and out of the hospital, and I hope that this year brings more of your dreams to life than it brings challenges :)
I’m not sure how I’ve only just read this post, but I wanted to let you know that is so beyond inspiring. To know that you started out the same as the rest of us and turned your dreams into a reality gives hope. When I’m having a rough day, or stressed out like crazy from university, I read your blog. It reminds me that things will fall into place when they are supposed to, and you can make your life what you want it to be with a lot of motivation.
Thanks for motivating me! And hopefully I’ll be lucky enough to make my dreams into a daily reality someday :)
Chelsey xx
you are too cute! what about lydia, roslin or jezebel but i do really LOVE florence!! let me know what you name her! my amazing hubby is picking up a new mixte frame for me, i SO CAN NOT WAIT!!!!
xo,
cb
p.s. I think that person to see your restored bike outside and wander in – is me!! I just need to…like…move to Canada, first. ;)
It is so great to hear your story like this!!!! Oh my goodness – I just love it so so so much. I absolutely LOVE hearing success stories of following your dreams and this is just an amazing and perfect example. xxooooo
Kyla — this post just MADE my day. Even my whole week. You truly inspire me (and so many others!), I need to stick my neck out a lot more and pursue the things I absolutely love.
Thank you SO much for sharing – this was definitely something I needed to read.
This is such an inspiring post, and I have a MASSIVE crush on your bike!!! Just found you through a shared google reader item, and I’m so glad I did. I’ll be back!
I am so very happy for you my dear! Congratulations x10,000. Isn’t it just crazy how sometimes things just fall right into place?
You are living your dream and I admire you for that. You are driven, ambitious and goal-oriented. I love what you have accomplished in the past year and I am happy that I was sort of a part of it through your blog. You are truly an inspiration.
Kyla, hello there! We were in Indie Biz together and that is how I found your wonderful blog. I wanted to tell you how happy I am for you and the success that you’ve achieved. I love your story and the way seemingly tiny details came to represent a dream come true for you. I can’t wait to read part 2!
Woo! Indie Biz 2.0 students! :) :)
Thanks so much for your support, and thanks for reading :)
This post just brought me to tears. I absolutely LOVE this line: “Even when a step toward a dream feels small, it’s still a step toward a dream- and they add up.” Amazing, Kyla. Truly amazing. You are an inspiration.
A tight hug of congratulations for all the steps, however small, you’ve taken to reach this point!
This post makes me so glad and excited and adventurous! What a lovely story. :)
this post makes me happy. and also like anything is possible. it’s amazing to see you guys actually LIVE your DREAM. it’s like a movie-story. only better <3
Awww Kyla, what a lovely story!!! It is so inspirational!
And that the tiniest things in life can guide our future. (I am starting to take those baby steps into creating a wonderful future for myself so it is great to hear a story that dreams truly do happen)
I remember your bike post!! You’re so inspiring.
PERFECTLY said.
This is such an amazing, inspirational story, Kyla. It’s so incredible how the littlest thing can turn into something so huge! I love how it all seemed to start with your blog. I cannot wait to read Part II!
I love reading your story-telling :)
i’m SO glad you posted this. seriously. the last little bit of it made me all teary-eyed. thanks for inspiring me, friend. :)
I love your story and it’s completely inspiring. I think I’m currently in a spot where you were when you posted that bike photo. Can’t wait to keep reading!
Sigh, this is such a wonderful story. I can’t wait to read part two!
I just love reading about the shop you’re creating with Leigh-Ann and Jill…it’s so inspiring! I dream of someday creating my business and working my dream job. :)
So Inspiring! Congrats on getting to do what you love everyday … I hope to be there someday too.
P.S. Watched the LA-TV episode you guest hosted…you two are the cutest things ever! It was lovely!
Thanks so much Kim- and I’m glad you liked LA-TV! It was so much fun I couldn’t stop giggling- I hope it made you smile too :)
so inspiring – crossing my fingers that i get to make a similar post some day :)
Yay! I loved every bit of this story and since I am in my own transition and working towards my goals of actually making some money crafting…this is super inspiring. I love you Kyla, but you already knew that.
Oh Kyla, I can’t believe this. I remember reading this story when it happened, now just realizing that it’s you who wrote this story (remember how I’m a blog-stalker). That is so neat! Now look, it has all come around full circle and you are all working together. You’ve done the right thing. I was very nervous when Leigh-Ann decided to venture out and do Freckled Nest full time, and is all worked out for her exceptionally well. We are so proud of her and so happy that you have joined her.
PS-I LOVE your bike, need one just like that for our cottage.
you’re the best Momma ever :) xo
It’s really cool to have watched this transition!
chills, kyla! i’m so inspired by you, i want to cry! :)
i bought one of your ‘four little pots’ e-books (with seeds, yay!) awhile back & have been reading your blog for a long time now. your accomplishments make this fellow Canadian feel like she can dream big & make those dreams come true.
thank you & of course, congratulations on making it to your dream life! :)
I just found this website called Crazy Sexy Life (crazysexylife.com) and it evolved from this woman’s journey to healthy living when she found out she had cancer – I think you’d really appreciate it. But anyway, I was reading yesterday about how she thought it was super important to have a visual board for your dreams. some place that you can visualise your dreams into reality so to speak. And I think that’s very much what you did Kyla!
Whooo! So awesome! Like many have posted—so inspiring! :)
awesome, totally and completely inspiring. I can’t wait to read the comments when I get a bit more time.
I want to be YOU when I grow up!
I love this. I am trying to figure out how to make my dream a reality so I can eventually have a balanced family life once Brett and I have kids. I’m not quite there yet, but getting closer with each and every passing day. Kudos to you for taking a chance ;)
this post made me smile soooo big!! you are such an inspiration and i thank you so much for being so open and sharing your story. i want to be you when i grow up. ;)
Oh Kyla I love EVERYTHING about this post. So inspiring, amazing and TRUE! Isn’t it amazing how the smallest things can change our lives? Like starting a blog in the first place! Wow, I had NO clue how much my life would change from blogging but I’m so glad it has!
Can’t wait for part II :)
Kyla,
I found your blog through Moorea’s a while back, and have loved reading, but have never said hello. However, after reading this fantastic post, I had to comment! Thanks for sharing little bits of your exciting story. I agree– it’s amazing how a few small things (and a lot of hard work) can lead you to being able to do something you’re incredibly passionate about. I’m currently taking little steps towards reaching that same goal. Scary, but exciting!
Thanks for being so gosh-darn inspirational :)
Hiya, Kyla! You don’t really know me but I left you a blog reward on my blog. ^_^
I am very, very new to your blog and think it is adorable. Also, I love your hair!
I am sure you’ve gotten a lot of bloggy awards for this beautiful site, but oh well! :P
Aw, thank you for the award Angela! You’re the sweetest! <3
This was very inspiring! I to am in the process of making those baby steps right now to make my dream happen. I hope in a year or two I can post a blog entry like this.
This post is so great. I’m so happy for you!
This is amazing! YOU are an inspiration! I feel the same way about blogging and hopefully opening up my own stationery/craft business after I graduate. my original blogging inspiration came from Rubyellen at http://mycakies.blogspot.com/. it was so fun to chat with her through e-mail, and in a cool turn of events, I was able to get my hair cut by her sister at the salon she works at. it was the first time i had been to a salon, and i was chopping off 16 inches of my hair to donate. i love the connections you can make through blogs!
I also gave you the Stylish Blog award: http://oh-thatsnice.blogspot.com/2011/01/stylish-blogger-award.html
:) can’t wait to read more!
Thanks so much Daphne! I love that my story inspires you- blogging is such an amazing community to be a part of, and it’s so neat to bump up against your heros in real life :)
Thanks for the award and for reading!
This is such a cute story! I just got involved in the ‘blogosphere’ this summer, and I already love it! I feel like I’ve met more people with the same interests as me than ever before…it’s awesome! I’m so glad I found your blog…you are such a sweetheart and it’s awesome that you are living your dream! :o)
PS…I love your bike! It figures that it came from Jill’s shop…she has such amazing taste!
Kyla, this story game me chills. I can’t tell you how much I love being a part of it. We all start from a small place, and the thought that Lune inspired you and helped getting that ball rolling to where you are now makes me very happy. I can’t think of another person who would fit in better at FN, and think it’s the best sharing a space with you. Your energy makes a cool personality like me warm up a little bit more ;-D
PS. Glad you like Luke, cause I got one more on the way!
love JIll
Kyla, I have loved following along your journey (I remember when you got your bike!!) and am so overjoyed at your success. You are a gem. xoxo
isn’t having a bike the coolest! i love all my bikes and so so enjoy riding to work. When i can’t ride for some reason i get so sad! does your bike have a name? my commuter bike is called mary and my fancy riding around town bike is urusla and most recently the mister and i bought a tandem which is called gilbert! he is so so much fun to ride! glad you are getting her restored, she is going to be even more beautiful!
xo,
cb
I haven’t named her yet, but I love the idea of an old fashioned name like Marguerite or Milicent- or Florence maybe? I think I might need you to name mine though, you have great names! :)
Such a great post! Thanks for reminding me that it takes a lot of little steps to achieve your dream. :)
Kyla, you are an angel! I read this and cried. I recognized so much of myself in this post. I have made big changes in the past 6 months (moved to Chicago, got a job at a fabulous art museum) and I want to keep moving towards my dreams. But sometimes I am crippled with fear and doubt. Reading your story gives me hope and inspires me to believe in myself. Thank you SO much for your blog. Its truly wonderful! And congrats on fulfilling your dream!
Aw Jena, those are huge changes- you are so SO brave!! I love that my blog helps you stay positive- you are chasing down big dreams, and you can rock this, I know it! <3
It almost sounds too perfect. Just how everything fell into place. :) Love it!
Kyla! This is so inspiring! I’m starting a course tonight that I’m hoping might take me in a new direction and reading your post just sent a little zipper of goosebumps right up my spine. Thanks for sharing and congratulations!
You are adorable :)
so so happy for your success! Can’t wait to read the rest….
xo
-A
Oh Kyla, I loved this post.
Truly inspiring and motivating.
HA! I totally forgot that I sent you that link! And I had no idea that your bike was from Lune Vintage!!! Ohhh I can’t wait for part 2!
I owe you a big thanks Amber!! You’re like a angel :)
xoxo!!! LA
<3 love luv your story!
your bike is such a purty shade of blue…awesomeness :-)
This is so amazing how everything just seemed to fall into place. I hope you know – but am pretty sure that you do – how lucky you are. Things don’t always play out that perfectly for everyone ;)
What a fascinating and inspiring post! Too often, we beat ourselves over the head with the kind of thoughts that tell us that our dreams are impossible and far-fetched. Think of how many possibilities are tossed out the window every day simply because we can’t see that one tiny step could lead to a life-changing opportunity.
P.S. I love your bike! It’s pretty much exactly the kind I told my husband I want – right down to the color!
so so very awesome!
FYI – We might be the same person, just 2 years apart. (How does it feel to be living in the future?)
I’ve been kind of pushing aside a shop idea for entirely too long, using the excuse that “normal people don’t really make it out there… it’d just be a hobby”. But the day you announced you were full-time self employed I was convinced I can be too. I immediately looked up that class you took… it said information on teachers & such would be announced in December but I’m not seeing any new info. Do you happen to have any? (I’m secretly… or not so secretly… hoping you’ll be one of the instructors this time!)
And lastly, I love my blue cruiser bicycle too! His name is Blue. Want to meet him?
http://heyasparky.blogspot.com/2010/08/meet-blue.html
That’s so neat! We’ll have to meet up some day and go cruising on our matching bikes!! :)
Information on Indie Business 3.0 is going to be available in February, I’ll announce it here, and LA will be announcing it too- I’m not going to be one of the instructors, but I might be writing a guest post about having your own shop…. shhh! ;)
kyla, this is a beautiful post and i really enjoyed reading it. thanks for brightening my day! you are awesome.
This post is so wonderful, Kyla! I wear my little thistle feather pendant necklace several times a week and I love knowing its connection to your happy life story :)
I’m so glad you like it! I love thinking about my pieces out there in the world- I’m glad one has a happy home with you :)
Oh Kyla! Reading your blog makes me believe anything is possible – even when I don’t know what it is yet! Thanks for being so inspiring!
Aw, I love this story! And I LOVE that bike. I love how random little things turn into huge, life changing things! It’s so inspiring! Can’t wait for the next installment
And PS – we need to have a video chat session soon!
I love this story and I remember the bike but I didn’t realize that it came from Lune Vintage. Do you still have moments where you sit on your adorable couch at the Nest gaze across the shop and think “OMG I WORK WITH THESE PEOPLE!!!” Im so proud of the steps you’ve taken to make your dreams come true. Big hugs!
I absolutely do have those moments, all the time! lol It’s very surreal and very exciting- I feel completely lucky <3