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June 9th, 2011
Finding Your Voice as a Blogger & Writing Your Best Blog
Originally written for and posted at My Girl Thursday
Starting a blog is a simple process- a few clicks and you’re published! But writing the blog that you want to put out into the world can be a frustrating experience. There never seems to be enough time, your photos don’t look quite right, and how will people even react to what you put out there? Self doubt is easy to get drawn into- so I thought it would be really fun to share some tips that I’ve picked up while trying to write a blog that reflects who I am and what I love for the past four years.
Sometimes it feels like there are so many niche blogs that if you aren’t a raw food vegan marathon runner, fashionable Mormon mommy blogger, or an effortlessly creative small business owner there isn’t a place for you. The thing is, those really polished blogs are the result of years of work, sacrifice, and heart work that those bloggers have done to know who they are to their core. It’s in communicating who they are and what they love that attracts people to those bloggers and their online spaces.
Even if you don’t want to write a blog that’s read by lots of people (Can you imagine the e-mail replies? *shudder*) having a blog is a great way to discover and showcase your passions. Spending time each week resting in what you love doesn’t just make for a great read, it makes for a great life! Think about what your interests and hobbies are, and look for natural ways to talk about them on your blog. Experiment with new kinds of posts and don’t be afraid to fail- your blog friends and readers will be a great safety net of encouragement and feedback if you let them in.
Just because you’re a blogger doesn’t mean you’re a writer- and it doesn’t mean you have to become one, it just means you have to find a way to express yourself that fits for you. If you think about the complements and criticisms that you’ve received while you were growing up, it might help you to figure out what works for you.
For example: I love writing, so writing posts is my favourite way to share. I love helping people learn new skills, so tutorials are a fun way for me to change it up every now and then. I’m a very visual person, so featuring my photography has been a fun challenge, and I have a unique approach to problem solving, so posts where I share how I’ve taught myself new skills or how I’ve organized parts of my business and life is interesting to other people.
If you love to talk, learning to video blog or podcast could be a really fun way to share yourself with readers in a new way. If you love to travel or have an eye for trends, take us with you or be a curator! Your voice as a blogger may involve lots of words or very few- but there’s no right way to express yourself. If you’re stuck, ask your friends and family about what they like about your perspective when they talk to you. If could reveal something about your character that you didn’t know was unique to you, and that could be the thing that attracts your next big client or next great friend.
Okay, confession time: I have a complete inability to sit down and invent something to write about. Put me in front of a blank screen with a deadline and I will spend eight hours on Pinterest or Etsy before I write a paragraph, but if I’m walking my dogs, riding my bike or doing anything away from my computer I’m full of ideas! Because of that I keep a notebook with me all the time and write my ideas down when they come, and then pick post topics for each day of the week. Suddenly writing five or six days a week isn’t a daunting task!
You probably already have a way of tracking your To Do lists and ideas that works for you, so think about how you could extend that to your blog and see if it makes your blog better. What works for you can and will change in time- I used to write posts up to two weeks ahead of when they published, and now I write a post in the morning that it publishes or the night before. But the best thing that planning posts will give you is time. You gain the ability to take the perfect photograph, or write a more thoughtful post, or to take a few days off if you’re just not in the mood.
Blogging can be a way you’re transported into a world of inspiration, friendship, and learning. And no amount of camera equipment or photo editing that someone else can do can replace what you bring to the table, because they don’t have your life experience, sense of humor or personality.
You are uniquely able to savor every moment of dreaming up a great post, putting it together, and setting it out in the world- so make sure you take advantage of that chance! Having an incredible amount of fun with some time that’s dedicated just to you is practically your obligation, and I hope it’s one that you take as seriously as I do :)
Thanks for this great post! Great read on a “who the heck am I?” kind of night!
xoxo – Megan of Makewells
I just found this through a post on our.city.lights. So inspiring!! I just started a blog of my own and I found it super helpful! Thanks:)
this is a super helpful and inspiring post. i’m super passionate about writing and often feel that my blog is all over the place. i’m okay with that right now:) but you have given me several ideas to turn over and process in hopes of pursueing my passion more and more:))
I just found this through Life is a Canvas through At the DewDrop Inn! Thanks for sharing your encouragement. I too appreciate it as a new blogger, and I keep reminding myself that time and more posting is the way to find my blogging self. Can’t wait to continue enjoying your Daydreams!
Thank you so much for your wise words. I’ve been blogging for seven months and feel I am finally finding a comfortable rhythm. My thoughts and ideas come in so many different ways… so it’s important for me to capture them on the spot. I also keep a small book at all times to write notes and also use Evernote on my phone. My blog antennae is always up and ready to receive ideas. Sometimes the most spontaneous are the most fun!
Thanks for this post, Kyla. Finding your blogging voice does take time and work. I think passion is definitely so important to writing thoughtful and honest posts.
Thank you for this post! It definitely helped my blogging confidence!
aw kyla, i love this post! so inspirational, thanks for writing it!
thanks for sharing. your post helped focus and encourage me which is really appreciated!
most excellent Kyla, i’m excited to scope out your goods STAT. cheers!
thank you for writing this post. i need to find myself and i think this may have pushed me a bit.
i’m new to blogging and need all of the help/advice i can get haha.
Great post! Thanks so much for sharing it.
I used to blog a while ago, but I just recently got back into it & started all over. I know it’s not rocket science, but I never really got completely comfortable with my old blog. Your post will definitely help me get more comfortable with blogging & finally make it what I really want it to become.
This is perfect! Thank you for that! I just recently changed my whole blog around because I found it difficult to focus on ONE thing.
That was an amazing post. I honestly have been struggling to find who I am as a blogger and finding my voice within my words.. and I think this has helped tons! :)
I need to plan things out and organize better and I think I’ll improve. :D
Thank you!
I am so glad you discussed this topic; it is exactly what I was needing to read. I’ve been feeling like I’m losing focus, kind of, as far as my blog goes. And I think that being more organized will definitely help. I’m going to make a notebook where I can store my ideas, rather than on the back of receipts that end up at the bottom of my purse.
I also love what you said about how your blog doesn’t have to fit into a certain criteria, just be yourself. Sometimes I wonder “Am I crafty enough for my blog?” or “Am I fashionable enough?” But I should think that because the purpose of it, ultimately, is a outlet for myself. To be myself.
Anyway, your post of very inspiring and I definitely took a lot from it. So, THANK YOU.
Yay, i also need that folder :)
Kyla,
Thanks so much for that! It was great. I loved your focus on passion! I started my blog to share all the things I’m passionate about… it’s called A Collection of Passions! I never run out of things to say because I am so happy to be featuring, focusing and writing about the things that make me happy. Your post had some wonderful points about being YOU! Loved it. IF you have a couple of minutes, I’d love if you checked out my blog and left me a comment or emailed me at kacieblogs@yahoo.com with any advice. Thanks.
Kacie
http://www.acollectionofpassions.blogspot.com
ooo! I’m excited for this! heading over there right now to read it!
I left you a comment over there ;)
Great article and tips! My blog started out as a makeup blog and now I talk about sewing everyday….sometimes I feel bad about not having much content that would appeal to my original followers, but its so hard to write about something when the passion isn’t there.
this article was awesome! Well written. :) I will be applying some of these. I haven’t been blogging for long… couple months and it seems overwhelming… I like this part: “experiment with new kinds of posts and don’t be afraid to fail”
I’m good at that. :D
I can’t wait to head over and watch it. Your advice is appreciated!
Kacie
http://www.acollectionofpassions.blogspot.com
Can’t wait to check it out! I always find your advice useful and inspiring, Kyla :)