November 7th, 2011
Creating A Better Balancing Act
When I started dreaming about quitting my day job to work with Leigh-Ann at Freckled Nest I knew that it would be more than I could imagine. More rewarding, more exciting and at times it’s also been more challenging.
The funny thing that I’ve found about owning a business is that many times I’ve found the most challenging thing I have to manage in my business is myself! That was especially true this summer when I found that it was hard to keep my focus on the big picture when there was so much that needed my attention from day to day. I needed to see the spaciousness of possibilities in the life I was creating, but I found it really hard to keep that wider perspective.
The fall has been such an energizing and inspring time in my world, and I’m so thankful to have found a balancing act that works better for me! I’ve slowly stopped rushing to where the most urgent thing is and started thinking about what my idea week would look like, and then piecing out my days so I can work toward all different kinds of goals- big and small, urgent and slow burning.
It’s a great feeling to have found a way to balance my design work & supporting Freckled Nest’s team of designers- along with having time for family and friends again. Best of all I’ve been making more for myself & Jesse to connect and have fun together every week.
Next month I’ll be starting my second year as a full time creative- an owner and partner in Freckled Nest, and I feel like I’m starting to get a taste of what the next year will be like. It’s going to be a busy, positive & energized one that’s full of new discoveries and possibilities – along with a better balancing act – and I’m so excited to explore it day by day.
{image: from Thanksgiving, pre-hair dying :)}
Congrats! Excited to see your creative journey unfold! : )
getting to see someone live out their dreams is a pretty special and rare occurrence. destiny really came knocking for you in the most timely fashion, you were absolutely born to be living a designers life and are a true spatial activist for everything filled with marvelous, contemporary and cool. when you’ve got a handsome one like Jesse as an added tether, well, it just makes the balance that much easier to score. way to hustle, bustle and stay steadfast to your beliefs Kyla. good gawd, if that internship was happening in Van you better believe i’d be in with the masses trying to get witcha all. congratulations to many more successful years ahead!
It’s been so great to follow you on this journey. Congrats on your success!
I think you touched on something so important, but so easily forgotten – the need to balance the long-term goals with the day-to-day. I’m definitely guilty of forgetting the long-term when faced with everything on my to do list for the day. I think it’s wonderful that you’re finding your balance and making being your own boss work for you and your family.
Congratulations on your first year as your own boss! I remember reading about you taking this step, and I was so excited for you! I love seeing people live their dreams.. still trying to figure out how to do this for myself. You’re so inspiring! Best of luck for your second year, and congrats on finding a balance. :)
Congrats, lovely! So inspired to see you making it work. Kx
I am so glad that you have found a way to balance everything. You are amazing at what you do.
Really wonderful and inspiring post! Finding balance in all of the different areas in life can be difficult sometimes. So glad things are coming together for you now that it’s autumn :)
I am happy to hear that you are finding more balance. That is not easy to do – especially as a business owner! I watched my parents build a very successful business. But they worked so hard and there never really seemed to be any separation from work and their life outside of work. Granted, much of that has to do with the fact that they owned a business TOGETHER. it would be different if it was one spouse v. both spouses. Dinner conversations gravitated towards work and we had a business line in our home that would ring at all hours of the day. My parents are thankful for the success they have achieved, but dangit, they made a lot of sacrafices to get there!
Anyways, I am rambling now, but I just want to say I am happy you are recognizing the need for balance! It’s so important! And I don’t want to paint a picture of an unbalanced life for my parents… it was just different than if they had just been employees at a company v. owning one!
This is a great post. I wish you luck on finding a balance! It’s not easy for any of us.
I’m so glad you are finding more balance in your day-to-day life Kyla! Work/life balance is SO important!! XO
I love that you share little challenges like this. It’s easy to forget, especially when looking at a perpetually pretty and put-together blog like yours where you make everything look so effortless, that the people behind them are working hard and facing challenges just like the rest of us.
Even though I don’t own a business, I can relate to what you’re talking about. I’ve been juggling with a full time job and freelance work for a year now and I feel like I’ve missed out… on my personal life. In the beginning I was so excited for all my freelance projects that I’d stay up over midnight every day and say no to friends who wanted to hang out. But sooner or later your body and mind just need the rest. I love your idea of picturing your ideal week and working everything around it. I’m going to give it a try! :)
x mervi
Hurrah! That’s such an exciting thing, in a kind of quiet way. You are so lovely, & inspire me so much!
XOXO!
This is totally inspirational to me. I am working hard to balance everything (looooove Scatterbrain thanks to you) and it’s so great to see that you can work creatively and not be a disorganized, frazzled person! =)
Kacie
I run into this problem much more often than I would like, staying balanced is such a hard thing for me and I often wish I wasn’t the only one doing everything for my business, blog and whatever else lol
But, I so happy to have such a supportive guy who doesn’t berate what I do.
:)
that’s the most amazing picture!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You guys are my favorite :)
That is awesome. I am working on that whole balancing act.
I’m glad you have found a better balance in your life, I know it can be tough, I struggle with it too. I think there is something about the fall that makes you step back and reflect on your life. I love that. Also, that picture of you two is adorable!
I’m glad you’ve found something that’s working better for you :) You always seem so happy when you write about your work – it inspires me to work towards MY dream job! Thanks!!
That’s amazing. I’ve always wanted to own my own business, but I’m not thinking of the little things from day to day that will make it so much more work. It’s nice that you’re getting it all figured out and you’re excited about it! :)
You are truly an inspiration! Balance is such a hard achievement… and to do what you do— I think you must be doing something right! Congrats on year 2!!
I love this post! I really enjoy when you talk about how you balance everything because I think everyone struggles with that at some point or another – plus it gives us a little more glimpse into your life! (And that photo of you and Jesse is so sweet!)